I find it ironic that the second of the two greatest commandments, 'love your neighbor', is often times overlooked by Christians as if it were lacking importance. Too many are deceived into the typical selfish exertions of committing all their time for self improvement, but give no time to loving and caring for others. They get so caught up in trying to conform to the guidelines and the "wrongs" of Christianity, that love and the "do's" become devalued in return. Basically in more blatant terms, someone can avoid immoral behavior, talk with a pure tongue, and sing their worship songs all day long, but their efforts amount to nothing, if love for others is absent. It says in Matthew 12:33, "To love him with all your heart, with all your understanding and with all your strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself is more important than all offerings and sacrifices required in the law."